Why can guys be jerks?!

this post should get a lot of comments from all of you boys out there.......hint the word boys! So ladies, why can guys be such jerks sometimes? Why do we let them treat us the way that they do, and it be ok? I say no. Ladies, we should not let guys make us feel like we are worthless and unimportant. I am #1 at failing in this, and in the guys that I seem to fall for. A word of encouragement to all of the women who are going through a "guy" time right now; 1st, always remember that God sees you as the priceless ruby that you are. No woman should be treated or shown less. 2nd if a guy that you are with or talking to isn't showing you this special treatment, than dump or lose the loser. 3rd, be careful of the ones who are sneaky, and lead you on.....I have first hand experience in this area. Don't allow it. Don't let yourselves be fooled by their lack of manhood, they don't deserve you or your time. Remember that God is our stronghold, and He is the only one that will fill all of us.....we need to find our rest and contentment in Him before He will place our other, if we are to have one, in our lives. For the guys, I know it isn't your fault all the time, we can be just as at fault; but, remember to treat a woman with utmost respect and care. We are fragile, and need to be treated delicately; and if you know you are having problems with manhood issues, then let the girl know, so she can steer away until all is clear. This has been a long statement, but I am just sharing my thoughts. If we all learned to be more open, starting with the male first, then I think things would be a lot better in the dating seen.....